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	<title>Comments on: Having the cake and eating it too - otherwise known as capra si varza</title>
	<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/</link>
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		<title>by: Margie</title>
		<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7942</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jun 2007 20:56:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7942</guid>
					<description>Oops...better late than never, I hope.  I've been out of town for a few days, but I am here and Happy To Comment if that's all it takes to keep one of my favorite writers posting! :)

By the way, Cyrillic works for me...I can read that one!

Thanks for keeping up with some English for all the rest of us. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oops&#8230;better late than never, I hope.  I&#8217;ve been out of town for a few days, but I am here and Happy To Comment if that&#8217;s all it takes to keep one of my favorite writers posting! <img src='http://shrinkmamma.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>By the way, Cyrillic works for me&#8230;I can read that one!</p>
<p>Thanks for keeping up with some English for all the rest of us. <img src='http://shrinkmamma.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />
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		<title>by: admin</title>
		<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7918</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2007 12:58:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7918</guid>
					<description>Lord: sorta. I had to, while traveling through Bulgaria. Most of the direction signs were using only that.

The others  - ok, let's keep it in English then, see what happens (meaning : I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU GUYS .. OR ELSE :d)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lord: sorta. I had to, while traveling through Bulgaria. Most of the direction signs were using only that.</p>
<p>The others  - ok, let&#8217;s keep it in English then, see what happens (meaning : I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU GUYS .. OR ELSE :d)
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		<title>by: monsoux</title>
		<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7914</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2007 07:28:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7914</guid>
					<description>deal! I am actually waiting for posts in Hungarian so I can feel like those who don't get Romanian. :) Get it? (my way of saying good to have you back)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>deal! I am actually waiting for posts in Hungarian so I can feel like those who don&#8217;t get Romanian. <img src='http://shrinkmamma.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Get it? (my way of saying good to have you back)
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		<title>by: Ashley</title>
		<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7913</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2007 06:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7913</guid>
					<description>I totally agree that you should keep it in English, for obviously selfish reasons. I can't understand Romanian, ergo I will be completely shut out when you switch. 

I have the same situation with my blog... I don't post as often any more but I still have really solid non-spam traffic, hundreds of regular non-spider readers a day. And yet only my mom and a few other people here and there leave comments. It's weird, and diappointing because I think the natural tendency is to hope that people will like what you write and then comment to tell you. 

I guess I'm guilty of skulking in the background of reading your site in this manner, myself! :)

Anyway, please keep on in English!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally agree that you should keep it in English, for obviously selfish reasons. I can&#8217;t understand Romanian, ergo I will be completely shut out when you switch. </p>
<p>I have the same situation with my blog&#8230; I don&#8217;t post as often any more but I still have really solid non-spam traffic, hundreds of regular non-spider readers a day. And yet only my mom and a few other people here and there leave comments. It&#8217;s weird, and diappointing because I think the natural tendency is to hope that people will like what you write and then comment to tell you. </p>
<p>I guess I&#8217;m guilty of skulking in the background of reading your site in this manner, myself! <img src='http://shrinkmamma.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Anyway, please keep on in English!
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		<title>by: Lord</title>
		<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7910</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2007 21:40:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7910</guid>
					<description>yeah, you've been lazy :D

ps.
you know to read those cyrlics you're threatening with? :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah, you&#8217;ve been lazy <img src='http://shrinkmamma.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>ps.<br />
you know to read those cyrlics you&#8217;re threatening with? <img src='http://shrinkmamma.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />
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		<title>by: Raluca</title>
		<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7908</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2007 16:35:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7908</guid>
					<description>Welcome back! :)
I would say to keep it in English. Your English is so colorful and enjoyable. You can make a point to your readers that they can comment in whatever language they feel comfortable with. You said you have readers -- so they can understand, even if their first language is not English. This way you don't alienate anybody. I have readers who comment in Romanian, and I don't mind - it actually makes it more interesting sometimes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome back! <img src='http://shrinkmamma.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
I would say to keep it in English. Your English is so colorful and enjoyable. You can make a point to your readers that they can comment in whatever language they feel comfortable with. You said you have readers &#8212; so they can understand, even if their first language is not English. This way you don&#8217;t alienate anybody. I have readers who comment in Romanian, and I don&#8217;t mind - it actually makes it more interesting sometimes.
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		<title>by: admin</title>
		<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7905</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2007 11:48:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7905</guid>
					<description>Well, to tell the truth, one of the biggest reasons that made me ..erm.. not so keen on writing was the lack of comments. The blog had lots of traffic, people read it and came back for more, yet there were 3-4 comments at best per post. I need this blog to get more life into it, to see people disagree with me, tell me their opinion, interact with each other .. I want to KNOW my readers, dammit. Since most of the readers are Romanians, I saw switching to Romanian as a possible way to obtain that. I'm eager to hear any other solution you peeps might have for this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, to tell the truth, one of the biggest reasons that made me ..erm.. not so keen on writing was the lack of comments. The blog had lots of traffic, people read it and came back for more, yet there were 3-4 comments at best per post. I need this blog to get more life into it, to see people disagree with me, tell me their opinion, interact with each other .. I want to KNOW my readers, dammit. Since most of the readers are Romanians, I saw switching to Romanian as a possible way to obtain that. I&#8217;m eager to hear any other solution you peeps might have for this.
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		<title>by: Karioka</title>
		<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7904</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2007 08:49:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7904</guid>
					<description>hey actually no, no deal. Look, there are people missing you as well, they have been waiting patiently for you to return, but they cant comprehend Romanian.It would make me quite sad if one of my favorite bloggers would suddenly decide to switch to Swedish, his mother tongue.

However I would still read him, struggling with some online translator I guess :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey actually no, no deal. Look, there are people missing you as well, they have been waiting patiently for you to return, but they cant comprehend Romanian.It would make me quite sad if one of my favorite bloggers would suddenly decide to switch to Swedish, his mother tongue.</p>
<p>However I would still read him, struggling with some online translator I guess <img src='http://shrinkmamma.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />
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		<title>by: Ashley</title>
		<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7902</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2007 05:08:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I don't understand the impetus for suddenly intending on switching away from English...? Please explain?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t understand the impetus for suddenly intending on switching away from English&#8230;? Please explain?
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		<title>by: Karioka</title>
		<link>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7895</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2007 09:09:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://shrinkmamma.com/2007/06/25/having-the-cake-and-eating-it-too-otherwise-known-as-capra-si-varza/#comment-7895</guid>
					<description>Deal!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Deal!
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